my wife aslo told that she is willing to do anything...she said she will never go to her sisters again without me...she said i could have her email and cell phone passwords...she says she wants to grow old with me...i just can't get over the amount of time this affair took place...over 4 years and weelky emails...we always had fun together and always had a vey good sex life...she tells me this guy was only a friend and it did not mean anything to her...i just cant beilve the lies and the extent of it...i feel i could get over 1 or 2 times...i wisk she would have come to me...she told me she had sex betwwen 6 and 12 times with this guy ober a period of 4 years...the first time they did it she says a year went by...then it became more...this summer she says she was with him 4 times...we hare both talking divorce...we are both angry and fighting...she is mad that i called the other man ans his wife...what should i do...i only called the other man and his wife because she kept lieig to me