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I finally got the new confirmed. My H had told me a while back that the OW had taken a severance package at their place of business. He has promised no contact for a long time, but had told me he heard this through the grapevine.<P>I just got the new confirmed through a friend and the Plant's Prime Source for Information. She is packing up and moving in with her boyfriend halfway across Texas.<P>Even though I have felt she has been out of the physical picture for a long time, will this help to get her out of his mental picture? Am I being way to optimistic that this is going to be a major turning point for ME?<P>He only saw once every few months.
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get on your knees and thank God for this miracle- love your husband and rebuild your relationship!!! Yu are so lucky and so blessed!!!!!<P>------------------<BR>Sad MOM<BR>
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Essyboo,<P>GREAT news!!!<P>Roll Me Away<P>------------------<BR>"Life is made up, not of great sacrifices or duties, but of little things in which smiles and kindnesses and small obligations, given habitually, are what win and preserve the heart and secure comfort."<P>Sir Humphry Davy<BR>
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Essyboo:<P>It's great news. But it's an opportunity---not a cure. You know what you need to do to make this work (consistant "Plan A" type behavior). Expect to see slow progress at first, but watch it snowball!!!
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Whoopie!!! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/grin.gif) <P>That can't do anything but help, ya know?<P>So happy for you, Essyboo!<P>Lori
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YEAH! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/smile.gif) Now for a strong Plan A!
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I think my H has been over withdrawal for a long time. It has been over 18 months since they ended it and I found out.<P>Could this trigger withdrawal again. So far he has only shown relief
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<BR>Great News!! Take this chance and work on your marriage. Make the most of this blessing.
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<BLOCKQUOTE><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><HR>Could this trigger withdrawal again. So far he has only shown relief<HR></BLOCKQUOTE><P>I doubt it---I had forgotten how far into recovery you were. <P>Great news. Grab a bottle of champagne!
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Essyboo<P>I'm SO HAPPY for you and your H!<P>The further away the better as far as I'm concerned <P>FC
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I have an overwhelming urge to call her.<P>I feel it is the last chance I have to put things right with God. Can I do that without confronting her in any way?
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WOW <P>Great news!<P>------------------<BR>~Sheryl<P>Nobody knows what you want except you, and nobody will be as sorry as you if you don't get it. ~Barry Manilow
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Essy,<P>Wonderful, great, awesome, spectacular, and down right a huge blessing from God.<P>I am very happy for you. (Envious too! ![[Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]](http://www.marriagebuilders.com/forum/images/icons/wink.gif) )<P>Keep us posted okay???????<P>Yeah!!!!!!! I love news like this! <P>------------------<BR>God bless you and all of us.<P>Samantha<P>
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This is great news!!!!!! It should be a relief to your husban because he was probably afraid he would run into her all the time!!!!<P>------------------<BR>"You can't always get what you want! But if you try real hard,you might just find, you get what you need!"<BR>Mick Jagger<P>
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