Well, recently this guy I know posted a call for positivity and a really beautiful post to his wife...<P>So I will respond...<P>Dear Dylan,<P>It's been nigh fifteen years since we met. 6 months of heaven, and then I screwed up and lost you... ten years later and a fluke and we're together again. Neither of us was expecting to hear the other's voice on the phone that evening, but the instant that I heard you, I knew who it was and I knew my life was changed forever.<BR>I not sure exactly what started our slide downhill, and I'm not sure how the viscious circle was allowed to continue... but I do know that it's all terribly wrong. I've done the worst possible thing in allowing myself to stray. Despite the growth resulting from this devastation both on personal and relationship levels I know you are still feeling the horrible pain pain of my betrayal. <BR>I know there is no quick fix for this, but I swear to you, by all that I hold dear that I will do my best, for the rest of my natural (and unnatural) life to not only make it up to you, but to surpass myself and any man you have ever known in the appreciation of the Goddess that is You. <BR>You are the only woman for me. Always have been and always will be. <BR>I made the hugest mistake ever. I knew I was making it as it was happening it is a mistake I will carry with me for the rest of my life.<BR>You are my sun, moon, stars... the magic in my life and my grounding when I need it.<BR>Your smiles and laughter are extacy, your sleeping face the picture of peace. You are by far the sexiest woman I have ever met and I never ever ever want to lose you again.<BR>I promise to do my best to make you the happiest lady alive, and to give a new definition to the word 'devoted husband'. I don't ask you to believe any of this... only that you keep me around long enough to allow me to prove it to you.<BR>I love you.<BR>deut

I can't wait to write something like this to Robin.<P>You guys are great. Take care of each other.<P>Bill<P>------------------<BR>BB<BR>

lovely. i should make my H read this..for ideas...<BR>not so bad for dylan to be addicted to this place, when she gets wonderful letters like this <P>joolstag

Deut,<P>Beautiful, simply beautiful. What a wonderful tribute to your wife.<P>------------------<BR>Love and Prayers<BR>Nicole<P><BR>

<P>Good for you.<P>Lori

thanks all...<BR>I did drag Dylan to the boards to read it- we had a really good cuddle after... <BR>Still, I wish there was something I could do, say or write that could undo all that I've done, if you know what I mean.<BR>I know it's too late for that, but still, one can wish, can't one?<BR>Deut