My husband and I have been married for 4 short months and already we have had problems on a daily basis. This past weekend, I found out he is still communicating with a girl that he had agreed not to contact again and told me repeatedly that he never did. Less than a month before we got married and I was living in another state, he was alone with her (after I begged him not to be and he promised he wouldn't) and she kissed him. He immediately called me and was extremely remorseful. He promised to never have contact with her again. I told him to tell me if he ever talked to her. He kept telling me he didn't. We got married. We have had our ups and downs but I found a diary he wrote in about a week ago talking about calling her. To make a LONG story short, in the past 3 days I have found information that he has admitted to then lied about more things until I found out about those too. I was ready to pack my bags and leave yesterday but he cried and begged me not to go. I did the same thing 2 days prior but stayed thinking he would be honest with me and then found out more that he had lied about in those 2 days. I don't know what to do. He says it's over. He never had a sexual affair with her. More of an emotional thing. What should I do?

Hi Heather,<P>I don't have much in the way of advise but you should repost this in the indfidelity forum, you'll get much more help there. I'm not saying this forum is bad, I started here too. I'm just saying the people in the other forum are usually quite quick in responding.<P>I hope all works out for you ok.<BR>Steve