<br>I feel really stupid, because even though my husband's alcoholism was ruining our relationship before we married, I married him anyway. We got pregnant 4 months after we married, and now have a 4 mo old.
<br>My husband and I have gone to conselors,. He would refuse to believe that his alcoholism was the problem, he just kept saying that I was a "control freak". 6 mo. ago, he said that he would quit drinking because he was "so sick of my complaining", but that he "knew that I'd still find something else to complain about."
<br> We get along very well when we're together all day. However; whenever he leaves the house and returns, I always suspect him of drinking, going to a bar. He has lied many times, all trust is gone. I dread getting the bills, because I always find charges to bars. He tells me that he drinks non-alc. beer, but I hate his going to bars. He yells at me if I'm suspicious when he comes home acting "different". What should I do?