I have been financially supporting our family for many years, and after getting familiar with your materials (which are GREAT, I might add), my husband and I had a discussion. He has now agreed that it would be best if HE works and I stay home. We had this discussion last fall (Oct. 2002). He STILL says he's going to get a job, but he has not had one interview or even updated his resume since then; obviously, his actions aren't going along with his mouth. I'm currently unemployed (since Sept. 2002), and VERY WORRIED about our financial situation. What should I do? P.S. I've seen a counselor, and she said he's not FEELING the crisis (he sleeps and watches TV a lot) - should I kick him out or remove the TVs? Other than this, we get along pretty well, but I don't feel he's carrying his weight (he does almost nothing around the house, either).