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Here is sit, radio playing the love dedications of the evening. I instantly do not think of my husband but instead of my ex husband.Some history here, married to high school sweetheart, he joined military, drank excessively and we divorced....ive been married 4yrs now to a now military man. He is currently away..and i sit...reading email from ex as he expresses his love for me and his need to show me how much he has changed and loves me and that we can only make our own destiny. This man, my ex i have loved for 11yrs....i CANT get him out of my head, out of my heart, if i stopped his email i would spend most of my time wondering what is going on in his life. I have posted before on this but it seems that there HAS to be a solution. Is the way i feel the way i should lean? I really love my now husband and i do love in my heart my ex. Im not sure if i love all the things we shared growing since we have been apart for the past 5yrs or what...i close my eyes and see his face..think of him making love to me....were we spent our honeymoon. I know this isnt fair to my now husband but what am i to do. I got an email tonight from my ex telling me that i am my own destiny..i chose how i want my life....if im totally happy why do i think of him. He has a girlfriend and was near marriage once but he said he just cant marry another when his heart is full of love for me. I just am so confused.....
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Lemmon tree very pretty and the lemmon flower is sweet but the fruit of the poor lemmon is impossible to eat...<BR>and:<BR>The grass is greener on the other side of the fence.<BR>Having said that: <BR>Reality is subjective. Maybe the grass is truly greener on the other side or lemmons taste good.<P>Learn to be satisfied. If there isnt anything else bothering you about your current marriage than this, count yourself lucky and learn to be happy. <P>Sorry so cryptic tonight. I dont know what to tell you but since you obviously want to be told something there it is :-)<BR>good luck<P>
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Brenda--<P>Do you realize if your current H is lurking on this site, your marriage could be over?<P>Get a grip. You're endangering your family with your fantasies.
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