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TnT,

I'm curious, have you contacted the abuse shelters to see what they could do to take you through the underground channels? Get you and your son out of the area--and help you get set up in a new town?

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Ya know, I was thinking the same thing, TR. Why not go underground, tnt. You don't hear alot about it but it does exist, somewhere.

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No way! My son wouldn't go for that at all!

AND it is a sure-fire way to lose custody of your child once caught!

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TnT,

Sorry I have been really busy. I have been offered a new post at a place I have been doing contract work at and well since it is managing a part of the company I have never managed before I have had a time of it.

Please do me a favor; stop talking to your H. You have a restraining order. If you allow your H to break it than he can argue in court that you only had the protective order put in place to manipulate him. Everytime he calls hang up and call the police. Let him know you mean business.

Next have you joined a battered wives group? Go and join. They have been where you are and what you are going through. As I said my spousal abuse advocate was the most helpful person in my experiance. The second helpful was the county clerk. I am greatful to everything they did for me.

Finally, do not worry about what your son thinks and desires right now. He has been manipulated just as much as you have. If you want to move and have custody than do it.

Please inform me what you have done to inforce the protective order, get yourself financially in place, custody of your son, and work on the divorce. If you are still re-grouping than keep inforcing the Protective order, custody/finace temp order.


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