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OMG I am fuuuuuming right now......*sigh* ok everythign was great...last week visitation was great and STBX and I went shopping together for our DS for x-mas....well he said he didn't have alot of money to buy stuff for our son for x-mas...well after that I didn't hear from him...I had informed him there was a scheduling conflict with visitation this week and tog et back to me with what he wanted to do he said OK....well this week I hadn't heard from him and he hadn't been online...so I emailed him...no response...emailed again...no response....then I had a funny dream that he was on the main street in disneyland watching the light parade and snow white was singing someday my prince will come.....well then today rolled around with still no response...I called his cell it was turned off....I was getting worried and called his work and his co-worker told me he hadn't been in all week....well this worried me it's not like him to up and leave...and he has threatened at least once a month in his fits of rage that he would commit suicide........and then a little birdie told me..and said "now don't tell him i told you and please don't get on his case about it"....he took his $#@&*^% B*^%# to disneyland...he hasn't been paying childsupport but he pays our bills and for day care and always complains about being broke...so how the F&%$ can he afford to go to disneyland....and then not tell us and make himself unavailable...I hate him so much right now....both him and her...I really wish they would both go away and leave us alone because allt hey cause is pain and heartache.

<small>[ December 23, 2004, 08:58 AM: Message edited by: surviving in his wake ]</small>

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I don't have any great advice except to say that fuming won't make it better. (Trust me...I'm an expert there!).

My xh took his OW to Paris in November even though they're broke and he bounced 2 child support checks in October (finally got those resolved a month later) and I have yet to receive ANY support for December.

And he owes me almost $2,000 for attorney fees from the DV and the retirement split, and he owes 2 months reimbursement for his DD's orthodontia, and he's not paying toward his son's college as stated in the DV decree, AND he's charging on the joint credit card that was supposed to have been closed per the decree a month ago!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Mad]" src="images/icons/mad.gif" />

So why did yours take his OW to Disneyland? And why did mine take his to Paris?

Because they are idiots! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" />

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Surviving, let me help you grasp a different point of view. YOU picked this man. YOU had his kids. YOU loved him. And now he is a dirtbag?

You have learned a lot. You are best to be divorced from this particular dirtbag that you chose to date and you once loved and married.

Now, if you are smarter and lucky, you will probably never meet, fall in love with, marry and have kids with a DIRTBAG like him ever again!

I wish for your new year that you NEVER meet and date another dirtbag man in your life and that you only date and fall for NICE, WONDERFUL, LOVING, UNSELFISH MEN!

You have learned from your MISTAKE marrying this DIRTBAG! People do not change that much, you did not face the red flags in your dating this man. But hopefully you will RECOGNIZE if a man is a dirtbag WAY before you become involved with him in your future dating experiances. Now you will never PICK or CHOOSE another dirtbag to be involved with in your lifetime!!!

WHOOOO HOOOOOO!

Stay far from dirtbag men in the future! SAVE YOURSELF!

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Hahaha...thanks baba i needed that laugh...it's true tho...I now know the warning signs....*sigh* I'm just waiting for news that maybe he propsed after 4 months of dating her in disneyland...since he has threatened he would marry her right after the divorce is final to force me to let her see my son....then I can say how original he propsed to me there too.....it's like he is reliving every memory we had together and trying to replace me with her....god where did this alien come from....


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