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First of all ,I have chosen not to believe the ow about her and my h continuing to see each other. She has lied in the past and h hasn't displayed any signs. But, what I am curious about is what the actual signs are when h has rekindled the affair. Is it the same as when they were actually started the affair? I mean there is no need for buying new clothes or fixing themselves up. The ow already knows him. Maybe the attitude changes or time at home is less, but what are the signs?Has anybody experienced this? My h lived with ow for 8 months so they knew each other well. No more fantasy.
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Come on, I know someone has some wisdom on this!!
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I don't have any experience with the rekindling. Maybe this forum isn't the best one to ask on. Go to the Recovery/General Questions forum and I'm sure you'll get some responses. Good luck!
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Blue... I knew they were still together when my H was distant and no longer attempted any physical contact with me. When he was with her he was withdrawn from me... conversation, physical, etc. I think you will know too. I hope you do. Take care... Carolyn
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