I havebeen lurking at gloryb. Why are you wasting your breath on this defective wastes of space? If they had any conscience or interest in improving themselves they wouldn't be MM's whores. That carolina girl is an arrogant, idiot. They don't care about us or our children.They are in these situations to get what they can. Purely selfish...Please ,getting into battles with them is like trying to reason with a group of 2yr olds.

Blue<P>i never intended to post..i have even mentioned at i.com that i would never post there but..i dont know that thread irritated me to no end and posted..I really feel i am directing my anger any place but where it should be..the h..i get so overwhelmed that i lose it..did you see how many posts it generated..omg if i knew that i never would have said a word..i was going to write you a letter later when i got my thoughts together, but i just figured why not just talk here a few words aswell..<P>did it ever dawn on you that many your H , being he is muslim to be married to the ow??..he sounds very evasive like my H that i am starting to think its a possibility..courts here would never know you know if it was done in a mosque..also how did you find out about the ow..the oc, and what was his reasoning behind it??..i am always in the dark regarding my h live it seems that i have just started to keep a eye on everythign around me..I can get into details about this later but i do beleive she is arab aswell due to the fact that the disconnected cell was to an older female employee(who he got rid of imediately after that) and the woman next to her when i went to the house unanounced was standing next to her, i would say in her 20s..same hair as in the car that i found a month earlier..she looked very American but she did speak both english & arabic..this is my gut, the thing is she had a small boy next to her about two, same as my daughter, until this day i dont know what to think..he has lied about everything so far..has denied everything..im at my wits end..how did your H do this to you..you think he regrets marrying an American..sometimes i got that impression, though i have mastered this culture better than any arab woman this doesnt seem to matter..when he was going through the d-day stuff and denial h went through some sort of emotion upheavl, still to this day i have not found out what it is, that is where the oc comes into play..saw a bunch of baby stuff on the computer and a wishlist and then bells went off in my head..this had to be what happened..but at what capasity is this relationship..intentional..a mistake..wife..whatever it was his family who care about me immensly were very upset with him to the point that his mom called him names and father wont talk to him..god know what i am up against now..what can you make of this??..i think now he is using escorts from all the stress of this mess..i order checkmate for a stain i found in the trunk..i am so messed up..how do you cope, and where do i go for answers?? help me

Blue<P>i never intended to post..i have even mentioned at i.com that i would never post there but..i dont know that thread irritated me to no end and posted..I really feel i am directing my anger any place but where it should be..the h..i get so overwhelmed that i lose it..did you see how many posts it generated..omg if i knew that i never would have said a word..i was going to write you a letter later when i got my thoughts together, but i just figured why not just talk here a few words aswell..<P>did it ever dawn on you that many your H , being he is muslim to be married to the ow??..he sounds very evasive like my H that i am starting to think its a possibility..courts here would never know you know if it was done in a mosque..also how did you find out about the ow..the oc, and what was his reasoning behind it??..i am always in the dark regarding my h live it seems that i have just started to keep a eye on everythign around me..I can get into details about this later but i do beleive she is arab aswell due to the fact that the disconnected cell was to an older female employee(who he got rid of imediately after that) and the woman next to her when i went to the house unanounced was standing next to her, i would say in her 20s..same hair as in the car that i found a month earlier..she looked very American but she did speak both english & arabic..this is my gut, the thing is she had a small boy next to her about two, same as my daughter, until this day i dont know what to think..he has lied about everything so far..has denied everything..im at my wits end..how did your H do this to you..you think he regrets marrying an American..sometimes i got that impression, though i have mastered this culture better than any arab woman this doesnt seem to matter..when he was going through the d-day stuff and denial h went through some sort of emotion upheavl, still to this day i have not found out what it is, that is where the oc comes into play..saw a bunch of baby stuff on the computer and a wishlist and then bells went off in my head..this had to be what happened..but at what capasity is this relationship..intentional..a mistake..wife..whatever it was his family who care about me immensly were very upset with him to the point that his mom called him names and father wont talk to him..god know what i am up against now..what can you make of this??..i think now he is using escorts from all the stress of this mess..i order checkmate for a stain i found in the trunk..i am so messed up..how do you cope, and where do i go for answers?? help me

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Incon, Don't get me wrong, I wasn't fussing at you. Just trying to save you some unnecessary pain form those women. <P>My H and I were separated for a year when he met ow. He went home for a visit, we were dating at the time, and he met her. Three hours after they met ,she slept with him. They were both very drunk and she was on drugs. She admitted this. Anyway, she came to the US. after they met to persue her education and they were roomates. So ,I knew all along. She thought they were more than just roomates that has sex. She fell VERY hard. He did lie to her and tell her that things were over with us,but they weren't. Anyway,ff 8 months after living together ,he told her that he was moving back home and she freaked out. She gotpregnant a week before they broke up.I didn't find out about the pregancy until she was 4.5 months pregnant and showed up on my back porch top tell me. I was alos 10.5 weeks pregnat at the time. <P>My h was never a devout muslim. He was brought up in a very liberal homoe in a very large city. THeow claims to be some ultra-feminist , intellectual, but she lices the ultimate old-world life. A kept woman. S he thinks,though, that being a concubine is very cosmopolitan. She thinks she is very European and sheik. I have some bad news for her!

Didn't answer a ? of your. I know that he isn't married to her. NO CHANCE. Arabic culture is very different from my H's culture. My H doesn't have that harem thing going on. And I assure youif they did marry in there country, ow would have gladly told me. My H would never be with ow,much less marry her. I am much more like a traditional woman from his country that she is. We are getting along very well now. But ,I strongly suggest that you seek out answers. Your sitruation does sound Very suspect. Can you call around to directory assitance to she is h has another number in his name? Look up on the internet. There are a lot of search tools at you disposal.

Blue<P>dont worry about the gloryb thing..im over it already lol<P>in ref to h, he is not a devout muslim either, in other words he doesnt pray , but does have a family that does pray and give the appearance of religious people, over the years they have visited and i have gone there, i love them alot becasue they are very good people..regarding h, when we have fights he tells me they think i am a victim when i am reallys so and so..you know how it goes when you fight..well anyway i wonder why I am a victim in thier eyes if nothing happened tragic, still fails to explain a ton of things that happened except to cry and say any man would be on his knnes kissing my feet rigth now or he did a bad thing and has to go pay for it..this could have been a ploy to be with her since i found out and i was watching his every move..well to make a long story short that was in december..since then he has become a loving h and father but will never revisit what he said..he denies ever saying that the trouble would start again if i for example see her in the mall..now the mall..hmm i said who the hell will I see in the mall that knows me??..no answer..well i must live withthis past every day and it wearing me out..many have said drop it..well how..how do i do this..how does one drop this with something of this magnatude hanging over thier head..he bought us a new house and the appearance of a family is emerging, but inside me is so much pain..i dont know how a man can love his wife and not explain what went on..i have come along way from then, but the stuff i saw is like it was yesterday becasue of the grave nature of what went on durign that time..i saw a therapist, and think i will go back, but how will this help when everything i tell them will be coincedence and him saying that he willt ake it to his grave..i feel like giving up

Incog, please w-mail me.blue00b@hotmail.com. If you haven't already read, Succubus has posted you entire story on gloryb. Don't worry God will have the last say with those sub-humans.

I dont care about those whores at all..i didnt even go back and read what they wrote..what a wastwe of time on their part..i only replied by what you stated here..and yes God will indeed get the last word..i will mail you<P>:-)