I posted these links on LuvMyFamily's thread, but thought others might find some usefulness out of the links.

I wish you all the best as you struggle with a lifetime reminder of your spouses EMR. Thank god my exwh had a vasectomy during his first marriage. An OC was nothing I had to deal with.

Keep your face to the sun!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=31;t=003539

http://www.marriagebuilders.com/cgi-bin/ultimatebb.cgi?ubb=get_topic;f=34;t=002911#000000