OW, OM. STUPID, VERY STUPID.

1. Stupider than cows or sheep
2. Stupider than prostitutes
3. The most stupid creatures on earth
4. Stupider than any animal on earth

They get "nothing" (well maybe STD's) from having sex with another wife's man. They get nothing from bearing and raising a married man's child.

Boy, it amazes me how very stupid they are!

<small>[ November 22, 2004, 06:36 PM: Message edited by: baba2 ]</small>

</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by baba2:
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They get "nothing" (well maybe STD's) from having sex with another wife's man. They get nothing from bearing and raising a married man's child.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">How would one get an STD from a MM's Wife? Is the W sleeping around too? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />


OW's get nothing from bearing and raising a child with a MM?

You are obviously not a mother if you think a woman gets nothing from having a beautiful child.

Whether or not a child's father is involved in their life doesn't affect the way a woman can be a mother and LOVE being a mother to their child.

We get nothing? More like EVERYTHING. Everything beautiful, happy, innocent, fun, loving, precious and more special than words can describe. Children are amazing and we are blessed to have them in our lives.

Yep, you must not be a mother if you think we get "Nothing" just because we're doing it solo.


P.S. Stupider? The proper English term is "More Stupid". <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

You know, Slimy Little One...we can do without your sarcasm, insults, and roll-eyes/sticky-tongue icons. Why you aren't banned here, is beyond me! You do not help. You hurt.

If you have "everything" as you claim...go enjoy it. Leave.

You keep coming here and obviously revel in the pain and disruption you cause. If you had "everything" you would have better things to do with your time.

<img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" />

Gardenbunny, see why I say they are stupid???

They have no purpose, no right to be here. The only purpose is to insult the BS and lie about how happy they are. Terrible heinous idiots.

Cheerful,

Stupider is actually correct as is funner, not more fun. Sorry, sweetie. Not commonly used does not mean incorrect.

I perfectly understand the joy YOU HAVE in raising a child. What will your child think of being the product of an affair? When he/she is growing up are you going to tell your child the truth or lie? How do you really think a 15yr. old feels when they have to tell every new friend or bf/gf about their unique family circumstances? A billion "I love you's" does not erase feeling like a mistake. Have you ever thought of your child? What would your child want? Will he/she be proud of the choices you've made? What have you done to remedy this situation for your child's sake?

A responsible mother would seek real advice about how to deal with these very real problems their child will be facing.

A responsible mother begins accepting the fact that they and they alone made the choice not to terminate the pregnancy or give the child up for adoption to an intact home, so now they have to deal with the problems.

Yes, all babies are a joy, precious, and fun. What isn't so joyful is when they learn to ask why. What isn't so fun is when they are old enough to act out. (teenage rebellion doesn't need nearly so much fuel) What isn't so precious is watching your child repeat your mistakes.

These women are mothers that's why some think being an ow/om /ws is stupid. Some ow's with oc's seek help early and devise a plan to help their child grow up healthy and happy. Funny thing is these mother's don't blame everyone else for their situation and don't seek to inflict pain on others.

The definition of having EVERYTHING is knowing human beings make mistakes, everyone is human. Owning up to your own, forgiving yourself and then forgiving others. Then MOVE ON.

baba2,

We have to be very careful on MB about general "blanket" statements. We have many posters on this site that are Fop, (notice the big capital F ) They get very hurt and offended about statements containing "ALL" OP. Many of these posters are valued, dearly loved members of this forum and whose contributions have been instrumental in recovery and rebuilding.

If you are having problems with a particular OP in your life, lets deal with that person and that situation.