"can't keep my mouth shut".<BR>I'm really sorry I generalized, I shouldnt' have done it.<BR>I've been reading your posts for a while and I know your situation is nothing like my H's ow.<BR>I apologize and will think "before I open my mout ( press my keys?) [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<BR>Hugs<BR>Kat<P>------------------<BR>Each and everyone of us is deserving of a kind word, a gentle thought, and the gift of understanding.