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Hi,<P>Ex found out that ow is living with another man and still trying to lead my ex on. Ex called her at new om's house and told her she needed to make arrangements for getting her stuff out of his storage quickly, and that he was trying to work things out with me and that she needed to leave us alone. She became furious. She then continued to call ex's cell phone and when he would not speak to her, tried calling my cell phone quite a few times. I choose not to answer as I have caller id on my phone and knew who was calling. My ex called the cell company and requested that both of our phone number's be changed. She then called my house and left a message (again, I did not answer) for me to return her call. Can you imagine? Like I want to speak with her! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>Anyway, during one of her many calls to ex's cell phone before the number was changed she threated to get him fired from his job as she knows he loved his job. Sure enough, she called his work and told them that he was harassing her and did not want him to ever contact her again. She has caused problems at work for him before so this was not the first time. He was told they could not deal with such things and let him go. Now, what gets me is that ow was the one calling us again and again. <P>Ex has told me that there was more contact with ow then I knew about (nothing sexual) just a lot of calls. She has always been like that, and calls him 5-10 times a day. He has said that he did contact her some also. [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com]<P>I told ex that I was deeply hurt my the continued lies but ow had no right to involve his job in this matter. She apparently does not care whether my kids eat or not. He says that he can't believe that he let this woman do this to him. Maybe it took something drastic for him to see the light. I can only hope so. I told him that I would stand by him, I love and care about him, but this was the final straw as far as ow. There will never again be contact because this bs can not continue. She is obviously a fruitloop! (okay, I didn't tell HIM she was a fruitloop, but I was thinking it REAL hard! [Linked Image from marriagebuilders.com])<P>I guess this is more of a vent then anything. I just had to get it off my chest. Thanks for listening.<P>

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I am sorry that the OW is trying to interfere with your husband's job and all the calls. It must be frustrating. I hope his employers are not influenced (sp?) by her and do anything. <P>Hang in there, at least you are supporting your husband and pulling together.

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