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but that he needs to continue to demonstrate that he is in it forever and wants to do whatever it takes to make things right.
This is what you're going to need to watch for. IF he continues to do what needs to be done to make things right, your feelings for him will change given time. But he's got to be willing. You CANNOT drag him through this. If you're dragging him, you are going to work yourself into the ground and be in worse shape than you are now.

Are you dragging him?