The most important qualities in a spouse - Marriage Builders® Forums

This is my last post to this forum. I want to end it on a positive note, despite my failed marriage. I've learned a lot from you folks, and I hope to return someday after what will surely be the hardest year of my life.

What are the most important three qualities you would like to see in your "dream spouse" ?

Mine:
- Honesty
- Integrity
- Passion

I'm outta here. Have fun people. I love ya'll.

Mike

<small>[ January 28, 2004, 02:31 PM: Message edited by: mike_married ]</small>

Hi Mike...best of luck to you. I know you've been through a lot and have a hard road ahead. Be strong and be happy.

Mine:
Honesty
Respect (for me and himself)
Open-Minded, communicative

Take care,
Smile

Yeah, I think its time for me to follow Mike.....Im remarried and happy now and I appreciate all the kind words and thoughts on marriage. Take care everyone and god bless you and your marriages!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .......... <img border="0" alt="[Teary]" title="" src="graemlins/teary.gif" />

1.) PERSONALITY
2.) TRUST
3.) HEART

OK sounds like we should all start playing "Hotel California" by the Eagles......

Hmmmm.... a dream spouse? sort of like what our ex's thought they had in us and come to find out they didn't?

so if we know the concepts of MB where all the emotions, the EN's are identified, etc.....

wouldnt one want their so called "dream spouse" believe or adhere to MB philosophy? Then wouldnt all the bases be covered?

just a thought.....

I like that my husband and I have similar moral values, similar views on how to handle money (I'm a little more of a spender, he's a little more of a saver, but we aren't so far apart as to drive each other crazy), and similar weird senses of humor. It makes it fairly easy for us to get along.