Unfortunately the woman that my H cheated with was single. But my sister's H is having an affair with a married woman and it is still ongoing. He won't give up contact. The OW is leaving her H and my sister is in plan B. Well, last night the OW's H invited my sister out for an evening on the town. He said that noone understands what he is going thru better than her and that he enjoys their phone conversations (they have not met in person yet). I'm just wondering if anyone here has ever done this and how did it turn out? Thanks

Well I went on a lunch meeting with OM W, just after I found out. I just wanted to talk to someone who was going through the same thing I guess, and I knew she was. Nothing happened, and there was no intent too. Just wanted to see if I could help in anyway. We haven't talked since. So I guess you couldn't call it a date, but I thought I would share anyway.