Thanks to all that posted.<p>[This message has been edited by BabyBoomer (edited September 10, 1999).]

It seems if your H truly wants reconciliation he needs to forgive. Maybe he has other issues he hasn't brought to the table yet. So, it's easy just to place all the blame on you. It sounds like yours has been a family in crisis for a while, especially the children you brought into your home. I'm sure the problems they are dealing with (thus you are dealing with) adds extra tension to the home life. I'm glad you and H are in counseling. Are the children?

Hi BabyBoomer,<P>Have you discussed Harley's concepts with your H to get your marriage rebuilt?<P>If not, give it a try. You might be very pleasantly surprised.<P>Let us know what happens!<BR>Hugz and prayers, Thoughtful