BabyBoomer,<BR>You could be me. Except I have been married 21 years, and 3 children, plus one brother.<BR>I would tell you not to give up. I am going through almost the same thing in ways. I'm not giving up. If anything over the last few weeks I have learned it is to fight for what our relationship should be. I read something over that period of time that has me really thinking. I can work, work, work at our relationship but until I turn it over to the Lord. And I mean really let it go. Its not going to do me any good. <BR>The Lord is the only person that can heal our wounds, the wounds to the heart. He can help us see things more clearly. Make a path for us and to make us stonger.<BR>My husband and I are going to a retreat the first weekend in Oct. I am looking forward to this because of the time we will be together and for the classes that they are having. Some of the topics are communication, sexuality, Prayer, Love languages, and Intimacy. Others are dealing with anger, Experiencing God for couples. Things that are of interest to us. Things we need to listen to, and to learn about. Things that will make our marriage stonger.<P>Its funny but 6 days ago, I didn't feel this good. I know it is because I Left my marriage in the hands of the Lord. Oh, I will still work at it. But I will no longer give up on my marriage and I will prayer for it.<P>Good Luck in your trials.<P>God Bless You.
<P>Unsure is NOW Sure<P>