A question about POJA/recreation - 10/04/05 02:50 PM
Over the last several weeks my husband has expressed some interest in going to an October Fest put on by our church. This would be $30.00 to listen to a band I don't know and eat hotdogs, sourkrout (sp), and drink beer.
Ok - this is just not the sort of thing I believe I would find enjoyable. I told him each time that it isn't my idea of fun. I'm sure the music would be fine, but I am not into this type of food. What is more, the last few times I have had beer, my stomach has revolted against it. Furthermore, I am a CCD teacher at our church, and I feel it's important to set a good example.
So, I guess my question is should one join in a recreation, even when it isn't the sort of thing you enjoy doing, for the sake of making one's spouse happy?
Sometimes I feel like I am being 'set up' in that he will suggest doing something, and I will say 'no' because it isn't my cup of tea. Then he will say something like 'see - this is why we never go anywhere or do anything...'
Thoughts appreciated.
Sooly
Ok - this is just not the sort of thing I believe I would find enjoyable. I told him each time that it isn't my idea of fun. I'm sure the music would be fine, but I am not into this type of food. What is more, the last few times I have had beer, my stomach has revolted against it. Furthermore, I am a CCD teacher at our church, and I feel it's important to set a good example.
So, I guess my question is should one join in a recreation, even when it isn't the sort of thing you enjoy doing, for the sake of making one's spouse happy?
Sometimes I feel like I am being 'set up' in that he will suggest doing something, and I will say 'no' because it isn't my cup of tea. Then he will say something like 'see - this is why we never go anywhere or do anything...'
Thoughts appreciated.
Sooly