By Hand Only? - 01/17/03 07:38 PM
I posted this in EN section earlier, but I thought that I might as well post it here too because it is more like a question to ask.
I’m not sure if I should even mention it here. But, here I’m. I had a chance to have sex with my wife (ws) 4 months ago for the first time after 2.5 years without it (she didn’t want any after D-day almost 3 years ago). I thought that it was a beginning of a long and slow recovery, but when I initiated again a month after the first one, I got rejected with excuses (headache, tired, not in a mood, don’t want any, etc…). Last week I kind of mentioned again about the lack of sex, this time, she still said no, but offered to use her hand on me.
Has anyone out there had this type of situation? Is it good or bad? Is it normal to do just that?
I’m not sure if I should even mention it here. But, here I’m. I had a chance to have sex with my wife (ws) 4 months ago for the first time after 2.5 years without it (she didn’t want any after D-day almost 3 years ago). I thought that it was a beginning of a long and slow recovery, but when I initiated again a month after the first one, I got rejected with excuses (headache, tired, not in a mood, don’t want any, etc…). Last week I kind of mentioned again about the lack of sex, this time, she still said no, but offered to use her hand on me.
Has anyone out there had this type of situation? Is it good or bad? Is it normal to do just that?