I need opinions - 10/05/03 06:50 PM
I need help.
in a nut shell: STBX and I have been separated for almost 10 months now. He left when I was pg with our second child.
He was be truly AWFUL to me. has been dating, MIA, not good about seeing his kids. lieing..etc.
in the last week we started talking more and more. suggested that since he's going to be fired, evicted, bankrupt maybe he should come home and watch the kids full time. I said no, that's not a good idea. a few days later he's admitting to feeling very suicidal. he agrees to check into mental hospital because I will not take him. don't believe his parents know. His parents are really no good support, they refuse to believe he has a problem.
so now I'm currently stuck being his main support. I am not sure if he's also calling his girlfriend while he's inpatient. says he isnt but hes proven himselve to be a bold face liar.
this is an impossible situation. i do not kow what sort of support I should provide? I've taken the kids to teh visitation hour, and he's really happy to see them and me. He SAYS that he's reevaluating things. (again, he's lied so many times I honestly can't say I believe him... maybe he feels that way NOW, but unlikely that feeling will last)..
anyone have any opinions or experience with this?
in a nut shell: STBX and I have been separated for almost 10 months now. He left when I was pg with our second child.
He was be truly AWFUL to me. has been dating, MIA, not good about seeing his kids. lieing..etc.
in the last week we started talking more and more. suggested that since he's going to be fired, evicted, bankrupt maybe he should come home and watch the kids full time. I said no, that's not a good idea. a few days later he's admitting to feeling very suicidal. he agrees to check into mental hospital because I will not take him. don't believe his parents know. His parents are really no good support, they refuse to believe he has a problem.
so now I'm currently stuck being his main support. I am not sure if he's also calling his girlfriend while he's inpatient. says he isnt but hes proven himselve to be a bold face liar.
this is an impossible situation. i do not kow what sort of support I should provide? I've taken the kids to teh visitation hour, and he's really happy to see them and me. He SAYS that he's reevaluating things. (again, he's lied so many times I honestly can't say I believe him... maybe he feels that way NOW, but unlikely that feeling will last)..
anyone have any opinions or experience with this?