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Posted By: redhat OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/02/04 04:54 AM
Hi All,

We are looking for April get together ... around Mid to End of the month.

We are planning to go to Winery, have lunch then chats. We are planning to get our own bus and leave together. If you are interested ... we have 4/10, 4/17/, or 4/24 take a vote or clear you calendars. Majority rules ...

This is Trouble1's idea ... I can't take the credit. She did a great job with outting to Comedy Club.

-rh-

BTW. if you absolutly wants to get together before hand ... I am open for that too but majority rule <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . Ski at Tahoe ? ... We plan to go Slasa this weekend ...
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/02/04 06:42 AM
ughhh...no to the 24th. My Brother is in town.

so redhat, we plan to go slasa? Is that a cross between salsa and getting sloshed? I like it!! Good idea redhat, wish I had thought of it.

<small>[ March 02, 2004, 12:47 AM: Message edited by: troubled1 ]</small>
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/02/04 01:54 PM
Oh dear ... now I know how you feel on the Salsa dance floor <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .


It leaves us w/ 4/10 & 4/17.

-rh-
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/03/04 03:01 AM
Dinner was good. Thanks for the company. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Our little group had the privilege of meeting another new MBer Tamara. It was good to be able to meet and talk.

Look forward to the next meeting. Hope Believer shows up (by the way, she isn't old - <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> ). Not sure how big that bus will be but I am sure it will accmodate our group.

I think the benefit of these get togethers shows us that we are real people, dealing with real issues and surviving. This is a good thing Regardless of our M status, our personal recovery status is in tact and in many cases doing quite well.

That's what I wanted to share.

Hope you all have a nice day. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

L.
ps: Kamara thought I was 'under tall'. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/03/04 05:33 AM
We are going to have Salsa night after all ...

This Friday and send me email for detail if you want to come. We have 5 peoples confirmed already.

I guess our group could not part too long ... LOL!.

-rh-
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/05/04 05:53 AM
Ok ... Wine tasting - 4/17 ... clear your date.

-rh-
Posted By: KS41 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/09/04 02:30 AM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong> Ok ... Wine tasting - 4/17 ... clear your date.
</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Do you guys have an idea where you want to go? H organized tours out at Wente in the Livermore area for a conference they held if you're interested. Or did you have more in mind a winery-to-winery outing in the Sonoma - Napa area?

Our mini-van will seat 6 comfortably, 7 if we make Orchid sit in the middle <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> And since I don't do wine, I'll be happy to drive so y'all can drink. If there's a lot of us, maybe we can rent a bigger van?

K
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/09/04 05:03 AM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by KS41:
<strong> ....Do you guys have an idea where you want to go? H organized tours out at Wente in the Livermore area for a conference they held if you're interested. Or did you have more in mind a winery-to-winery outing in the Sonoma - Napa area?

Our mini-van will seat 6 comfortably, 7 if we make Orchid sit in the middle <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> And since I don't do wine, I'll be happy to drive so y'all can drink. If there's a lot of us, maybe we can rent a bigger van?
K </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">KS,

This wine trip is T1's idea. My H was willing to be the designated driver and will still be but if you want to drive I am sure he would acquiese (sp???).

They were thinking of the Sonoma area I think. Wanted to visit some smaller wineries and have a nice picnic type lunch.

H's friend has a limo van but it is not available. So the option to use the van sounds good. We could meet in Pleasanton at my work.

There are at least 8 that I am aware of so we may need a bigger van. Will look into that option.

So you want me to sit in the middle? I was always the one who had to sit on the hump seat in the car when I was younger. Guess some things never change - LOL!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/09/04 04:10 PM
Realistically, we can't all car pool together since we live all over the place. I think it is easier for J.R to go direct to Sonoma than go to Pleasanton first.

I will let T1 tell us the secret place via email <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

-rh-
Posted By: J.R. Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/10/04 02:51 PM
Just so long as I have a little bit of "recovery time" after the last winery, before I've got to think about driving... food would be good, too... I think T1 had mentioned something about a picnic combined into this also, which would be nice - lots of cheap/free booze and little/no food could be trouble! Let us know if we should bring anything!

See you, off to Shasta this weekend... weather looks good, hope I'm ready.
Posted By: Drucilla Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/10/04 05:01 PM
Hi Guys!

If I can offer my 2cents?
Sonoma always has less traffic and fewer crowds than Napa, but the Napa tours and vineyards are more impressive. Wineries are open limited hours, like 10a-4/5p so best to get their early and have a plan. If not, you may only get to one or two for the entire day <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> .

Generally, Pick a Valley (Sonoma or Napa), then start at one end and work your way toward the other. As soon as you get to town, pick up one of the free brouchures with all the wineries listed. This will have hours and a great map.

Narrow the list to about 4/5 wineries. Find lunch and deli snackables in between. Bring enough glasses for everyone and an opener. Bonus for napkins and water.

My favorite places:
Clos Pegase (sp?) has a fantastic tour. The owners are art collectors, and the property is filed with wonderful sculptures and other art. The guide was great. It's one of the few free tours in Napa. I highly recommend <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> . (wine was ok, too 'French' for my liking) Only twice a day I think, so check for times.
Clos Pegase

Sterling Vineyards in Calistoga has a great picnic area open to the public. It's on a hill with a great view of the Napa Valley. Their wine was really good and reasonably priced. Buy a bottle (many under $15) and use their tables, it's really nice. Great place to stop for a midday cheese snack.

The Robert Mondovi tours was VERY educational, gave a nice wine101. Smelled wonderful! Pretty estate (wine ok). Must book appointment in advance, they do sell out. Wear comfortable shoes.

Matanzas Creek on the Somoma side is georgeous, but you need an appt for the tour. Just stopping buy for the tasting was great, I've never done the tour. Very pretty and I really liked the wine.
Matanzas Creek

Domain Carneros is a beautiful estate! Sit outside have the best 'champagne' available in the vallies... Fantastic wine, too (more expensive than most). (skip Gloria Ferrer chmpagen cave tour... tiny, quick, and the champagne wasnt very good).

gosh, I wish i could go..... got my mouth watering. May drag H out this weekend, anyway <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> I've been to a lot!!! If any questions, I'll be glad to help!! - Dru
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/10/04 07:46 PM
J.R., enjoys your trip & see you 4/17, unless you feel like going to Salsa dancing.

Drucilla, well T1 already has a place in mind. Probably later during the year you could organize one for us, that is the help we need <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

-rh-
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/11/04 08:52 AM
Dru,

Those sound like fun places. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Can you join us? My H (xws) is coming and maybe KS41's H....so your H can come also.

JR,
Have a fun trip. Sure jealous of all the trips you get to take. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

RH & T1,
Thought is might be better to meet in Pleasanton because it is central for most, unless there is a better spot. I think JR is only about 30 minutes away and then he won't have to be driving as far.

Where are the places you mapped out? Whose coordinating lunch? I don't want to brown bag but would be willing to make a few dishes (chicken katsu, spam musubi, veggie platter, brownies, potato salad, etc.).

I am truly getting excited. Does anyone know if Believer is going to join us?

My brain is tired. That's all for now. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

L.
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/11/04 02:48 PM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by Orchid:
<strong>Thought is might be better to meet in Pleasanton because it is central for most, unless there is a better spot. I think JR is only about 30 minutes away and then he won't have to be driving as far. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">For J.R is 30 minutes to Plesanton then back the other direction to winery ... he could have been
there already <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> , he could decide.

It might be easier for me & lulu to go up to ks41 and car pool.

It is a month a way anyway.

All,
I thead-jack my own thread. My 2 D's rink has a skater show on 3/28 from 5:00PM-8:30PM. Anyone wants to go to see ?. I have tickets available.
-rh-
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/12/04 07:32 AM
Ok RH,

So I am geographically challenged. There I said you, you now know one of my needs. LOL!!!

So we change the meeting place closer up the bay or pick up JR on the way. You all decide and let us know. I'm not driving anyway.... I volunteer to be the wine taster...... oops that what we are all suppose to be doing, eh? LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

BTW, it is virtually impossible to hi-jack your OWN thread, RH. I mean really you could hit us up for buying your children's school raising funds on this thread and probably make a few bucks. LOL!!! But you know some of us have kiddies and pets too! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

When is T1 going to provide the details? Who is organizing lunch? Am I hyped up about this at 11:30 at night or what?!?!? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

L.

L.
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/12/04 08:49 AM
Orchid,

Hey, as long as MBers are willing to come ... tickets are on me ... so that you could use the time as part of 15 hours fillin ENs ... LOL!. My youngest would be the first skater to open the show ... don't be late if you wanna to come <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

Anyone else ? I have to get the ticket before next Friday. Show is on 3/28.

-rh-
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/13/04 07:49 AM
RH,
Put us up for at least 3 tickets. I think it w/b fun for my son to see your girls work their magic on skates. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

L.
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/13/04 08:12 AM
put me down for a ticket buddy.

Orchid, we are going to a few mom and pop wineries and I think Ferrari Corona (sp) as well and then having a picnic lunch at my favorite winery. You'll see, it will be fun! Trust me! Let's not get carried away with the details. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

later alligator!
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/13/04 11:20 PM
Good ... I reserve 4 tickets and email the detail later. Anyone else ?.

You gals/guys will enjoy it.

-rh-
Posted By: oaktown Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/20/04 02:51 AM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by redhat:
<strong>Anyone else ?</strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">hi redhat...

if it's not too late, my son and i would love to join you...

let me know...

oaktown...
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/21/04 02:16 AM
oaktown,

Happy to get you the ticket ... count# ^ to 6 tickets.

I don't think I have your email ... send me your email addy to inside_hacker@yahoo.com

-rh-
Posted By: oaktown Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/21/04 06:38 AM
redhat...

you've got mail...

oaktown...
Posted By: J.R. Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/23/04 03:52 AM
Let's see, 3/28 I'll be in a different country!

Not to be alarmist, but a friend of mine was talking about making me take her up to Yosemite on the 4/17 weekend... I believe negotiations are possible for changing that. (BTW, don't get any funny ideas... friend with a capital F.)

And obviously I survived Shasta to be writing this (or someone hacked my account). It was great, we didn't summit due to high winds, but it was very useful. I've got some good pics, but they're only digital, so it's sorta hard to bring them along places. And now I'm a bit sunburned from being skiing this past weekend. I got tuned in to some even more stuff that'll be keeping me crazy busy for April and May... this is getting nuts!

I trust everyone's been keeping well...
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/23/04 04:33 AM
Hey JR,

You are our adventerous one!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> Can't keep up with you bro'. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Glad you had a fun time @ Shasta. Bring you camera and show us the pixs.

Yosemite?!?!? Hm.... kinda trigger point for me. Go and make a new memory so we can rub out OWs scent from that beautiful place. I hate the fact that her website has a pix of her in Yosemite. Of course she looks like a man in the pix, but still she mars the beauty there. LOL!!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

So travelin' man, have a fun and safe trip. Bring yourself back so we can go wine tasting. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

Aloha,
L.
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/23/04 04:46 AM
Well JR, you've been having too much fun. You'll just have to reschedule the Yosemite trip. I'm sure your "Friend" will understand. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />
Posted By: J.R. Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/24/04 02:30 PM
T1, "too much fun"... LMAO! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> Well, details are best left for another day...

4/17 is taken care of, start the van...
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/26/04 10:26 AM
Just came back from Mexico.

For Orchid, oaktown & T1 ... I had your ticket, I will email or call you for detail & direction.

For J.R. ... hmmm, isn't the best R should start being freind first <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> ?. Why funny idea ? ... your Dv is final & you are an adult ... lol!. Bring her along next time ...

Anyone else ?

-rh-
Posted By: *LULU* Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/28/04 08:28 AM
Mexico was hella fun! Redhat and I had a great time climbing the pyramid at Chichen Itza and checking out the world's second largest reef in a submarine!

There's too much blank space in my passport...
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/28/04 09:12 AM
allright girl! We'll go to Europe next year and fill up that passport! How does that sound?
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/28/04 09:15 AM
BTW, congratulations on your 1000th post!
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/28/04 04:18 PM
T1, Oaktown, Orchid ... see you tonight t the show.

*LULU* ... you forgot about driving in Mexico on an old VW bug. If you are not busy tonight <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> , I still could get ticket for you.

T1 ... forget about next year & Europe, Lulu might fill it up w/ travel to Asia before hand. LOL!.

-rh-
Posted By: oaktown Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/29/04 06:06 AM
♥ orchid,
♥ troubled1 and
♥ redhat...

nice meeting you...

oaktown...
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/29/04 06:34 AM
oaktown... nice to meet you too ... now you could relate our face and MB handle. Too bad that you couldn't have dinner w/ us. Usually we start talking after our tummy full. Anyway you have our# & email whenever you need support or point of views.

Join us next time in our wine picnic arranged by T1.

All ... thanks and my 2 D appreciate the supports <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

-rh-
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/31/04 06:11 AM
RH,

That was a beautiful show. Your girls are great. It was good to see the special olympic segment. Those kids do more than I could ever do on wheels. LOL!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

That one guy who skated with his 'dummy' partner was hilarious. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

Thanks for inviting us and helping me get parked. That place was jammed packed!

Oaktown, it was nice to meet you. Hope we get together again.

Listen up peoples, Lostandhurt maybe coming on 4/30/04 to the MB class. How would you all like to get together for dinner? T1, would you be willing to arrange it?

JR, ks41, Lulu, Dru, Oaktown, RH, T1, Supermom, DevastatedChris, Rapunzel, kamera, AMMartin and all the others hiding in the bay area..... let us know if you'd like to join us sometime that weekend. Maybe we could do dinner or something fun!

Here's my addy: mborchid2@yahoo.com

aloha,
L.
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/31/04 09:12 PM
Hey!!
It was great seeing my friends and redhat's daughters skate as well.

I enjoyed meeting oaktown and hope we can chat more at a future event.

So Orchid, define what you mean by "arrange"? Did I ever tell you that I consider myself more of a visionary /Idea person? Planning isn't one of my strengths but I'm happy to do it if you don't mind being, ahhh, spontanious! In fact everyone is welcome to pile over to my place and do a pot luck of sorts if that's sounds like fun. I still have quite a bit of Tequilla left on top of the fridge and a few bottles of wine and I'm sure I'll pick up a few more in Sonoma in a few weeks. In fact my kitchen may be partially renovated by then since my brother's coming on the 21st to help me out.

Or we could come up with a more "neutral" location if that's preferable but I'm itchin to try out the new shot glasses that redhat picked up for me in Mexico!!


Let me know! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 03/31/04 11:41 PM
we could talk about it on our picnic about this, the actual date has to be either 3/29 or 4/1 (Sat) since 3/30 is a scheduled time for the MB weekend. Who knows, I might be sign up too ... even I have to go solo <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" /> or probably I could borrow "Sandy", the blonde dummy, to go w/ me ... lol! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> . If it is only 2 peoples I could pick them up and drive them to the destination since they won't have car but if they are more than 2 we have to arrange some transportation.

I think we should meet on 4/1 (Sat night for dinner) that way we could ask the participant about the seminar <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" /> .

-rh-
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/01/04 01:05 AM
i think one of us is in the wrong month redhat?
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/01/04 01:15 AM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by troubled1:
<strong> i think one of us is in the wrong month redhat? </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">I am the one in the wrong month sorry ...

it is 5/1 ... I am still recovering from my allergy ... lol!

-rh-
Posted By: troubled1_dup1 Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/06/04 12:41 AM
ya know what I realized this weekend? I'm not going to be around the weekend of the 1st. It's my race weekend.

Sorry, I won't be able to host or attend any stuff.

Thanks redhat for reminding me of that.
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/06/04 12:50 AM
U R welcome ... they might not come, check their posts and it is on the rock right now.

Hey, I want to go to your race ... let us know the detail. 5/1 that is the start of my single week.

-rh-
Posted By: *LULU* Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/09/04 12:51 AM
I'm going to have to rescind my previous RSVP. Some stuff has come up and I won't be able to make it on the 17th.

Sorry guys...I miss ya and hope we can get together really soon.
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/09/04 03:11 PM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by *LULU*:
<strong> I'm going to have to rescind my previous RSVP. Some stuff has come up and I won't be able to make it on the 17th.

Sorry guys...I miss ya and hope we can get together really soon. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Hmm ... what is more important than this picnic ? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> . There is always next time ... and who knows 4/17 might open up if "your stuff" doesn't come up. -rh-

<small>[ April 09, 2004, 10:13 AM: Message edited by: redhat ]</small>
Posted By: J.R. Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/15/04 01:51 AM
Okay... bump, plus what's the scoop for times and places? Lulu... <shaking my head>... you owe us.
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/15/04 04:20 AM
I will be sending out my e-mail tonight. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Frown]" src="images/icons/frown.gif" />

H has got a broken leg.... but I didn't do it. <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

L.
Posted By: *LULU* Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/16/04 09:06 PM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by J.R.:
<strong> Lulu... <shaking my head>... you owe us. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Oh shyaaah riiight! I've been to every single Bay Area event - with the exception of this one.

What's the deal with the MB Weekend dinner thingy? I might be up for that - even though I no longer have a marriage to build. LOL - today is six months. I couldve been officially divorced today.
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/17/04 02:28 AM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by *LULU*:
<strong> .... - even though I no longer have a marriage to build. LOL - today is six months. I couldve been officially divorced today. </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">With your speedy actions, I am surprised you haven't start buidling a new one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> .

In CA, after 6 months you could push for change of status to Dv and become single even the Dv mess (financial) is still going on in the court.


All, Last call if you want to go to the winery !. Email or call Orchid if you want the detail.

-rh-
Posted By: *LULU* Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/17/04 04:38 AM
<strong>With your speedy actions, I am surprised you haven't start buidling a new one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> . </strong>

Hmmmph. I'm beginning to think that friends don't let friends get married.

What the heck happened to your vegas trip??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" />

<small>[ April 16, 2004, 11:39 PM: Message edited by: *LULU* ]</small>
Posted By: Orchid Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/17/04 04:43 AM
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Originally posted by *LULU*:
<strong> <strong>With your speedy actions, I am surprised you haven't start buidling a new one <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" /> . </strong>

Hmmmph. I'm beginning to think that friends don't let friends get married.

What the heck happened to your vegas trip??? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Confused]" src="images/icons/confused.gif" /> </strong></font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Friends don't let friends drink and drive and..... :rollingeyes: <img border="0" title="" alt="[Razz]" src="images/icons/tongue.gif" />

Wanna ride? H9wa' been, jelly bean? <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.

<small>[ April 16, 2004, 11:43 PM: Message edited by: Orchid ]</small>
Posted By: redhat Re: OT: SFBayAreaMBer VII - 04/17/04 02:02 PM
LULU,

Friends just want you to be happy and not get hurt again but you have to bring him to our get together to be check out ... lol!.

My LV trip ?, how can I go with someone that put NC <img border="0" title="" alt="[Eek!]" src="images/icons/shocked.gif" /> ?. She pulled one of those again <img border="0" title="" alt="[Roll Eyes]" src="images/icons/rolleyes.gif" /> . I tell you when you get back and hav free time. You will miss the long version today at the winery.

-rh-

<small>[ April 17, 2004, 10:32 AM: Message edited by: redhat ]</small>
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