After many months of No-Contact.... it's come to this - 11/11/04 01:51 PM
Ladies and Gentlemen..
Maybe some of you remember me.. maybe not. To refresh your memory.. I am the FWW. The last contact that I've had with the OM is July 7th. I have not called, emailed, or contacted this person since then. I am actually pass the point of the fog and withdrawal and am beginning to now be able to work on either making my marriage work or ending it. If my husband and I can not make it work.. it will NOT be because of another person. I have been faithfully giving to my marriage what I should have been giving to it years ago and i'm finally starting to feel better about it.
Here's my problem.... I have been receiving calls on my cell phone from this OM girlfriend. Last night she left a vmail msg telling me to stop calling her man. I did not hide this from my husband, in fact, he was there when i first retrieved it, so i let him listen to it. In the msg, she sounds seriously unstable and desperate. I HAVE NOT made any attempt whatsoever to contact this man. My cellphone bills are open for public scrutiny, and there is not one instance of an outgoing call to him. Actually, I thought or think he's changed his cell phone number.
The calls that I receive from her are actually from her cell phone or a calling card. My question is... should I call this woman back, should I send an email to him (while we both deleted our email accounts, I know he has a website with an email on there that i could probably send to). Or should I just ignore it. I believe, with all my heart, that this man has found another OW and is placing blame on me, to distract her from what he's doing, of course that's just my theory.
What should i do? I can not change this cell phone number with out lots of work, because it's attached to my job and I'm on call with it.
Maybe some of you remember me.. maybe not. To refresh your memory.. I am the FWW. The last contact that I've had with the OM is July 7th. I have not called, emailed, or contacted this person since then. I am actually pass the point of the fog and withdrawal and am beginning to now be able to work on either making my marriage work or ending it. If my husband and I can not make it work.. it will NOT be because of another person. I have been faithfully giving to my marriage what I should have been giving to it years ago and i'm finally starting to feel better about it.
Here's my problem.... I have been receiving calls on my cell phone from this OM girlfriend. Last night she left a vmail msg telling me to stop calling her man. I did not hide this from my husband, in fact, he was there when i first retrieved it, so i let him listen to it. In the msg, she sounds seriously unstable and desperate. I HAVE NOT made any attempt whatsoever to contact this man. My cellphone bills are open for public scrutiny, and there is not one instance of an outgoing call to him. Actually, I thought or think he's changed his cell phone number.
The calls that I receive from her are actually from her cell phone or a calling card. My question is... should I call this woman back, should I send an email to him (while we both deleted our email accounts, I know he has a website with an email on there that i could probably send to). Or should I just ignore it. I believe, with all my heart, that this man has found another OW and is placing blame on me, to distract her from what he's doing, of course that's just my theory.
What should i do? I can not change this cell phone number with out lots of work, because it's attached to my job and I'm on call with it.