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Posted By: way2 Well I'm back - 02/23/05 05:35 PM
Hi everyone, those who remember me, and those who don't,

I have a request. Could you please post links to the funny threads about what WS do that sort of tips BS off that there is something going on, the funny justifications they use or say, etc.

You see I just got a call from my sister. Guess what? You guessed it, she's upset and needs to laugh.

Honestly, she told me some of the stuff that was going on (like always keeping the cell phone in the bathrobe, and making calls whenever he went to the bathroom) that I think it would do her some good to see that others have also witnessed such silliness.

I will email her a link to this thread.

Thanks

way2
Posted By: love of a lifetime Re: Well I'm back - 02/23/05 05:43 PM
I do not have a link but that bathroom thing is such a classic sign. I wish I have known before my WH affair that the bathroom would become his phone booth/office (at home or in public restrooms). Still amazes me how I did not pick up on that sooner. ARGGGHHH!

Sorry, I guess just a short vent!

L.O.A.L
Posted By: doneinfl Re: Well I'm back - 02/23/05 05:58 PM
My WH STILL takes the phone EVERYWHERE he goes, bathroom included. Funny, about the time he learned to text message, his bathroom visits became much longer. Hard to get those nubby fingers on those little keys! LOL
Posted By: way2 Re: Well I'm back - 02/24/05 03:09 AM
s'okay love of a lifetime . . .

vent away ... I for one found that very healthy, so I could deal more effectively with things at home.


drainedinfl -- lol <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" />

way2
Posted By: tummytuck Re: Well I'm back - 02/24/05 05:16 AM
Sorry that your sister has found herself in need of support. My WH used to hide his phone and I'd hunt it out, sneak off to the bathroom and check out his messages from OW there. Obviously, cellphones and bathrooms are integral parts of A's! TT
Posted By: Orchid Re: Well I'm back - 02/24/05 06:21 AM
I think your sister needs to tie a string to the toilet and flush it after he gets on the phone. LOL!! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />

L.
Posted By: nikko Re: Well I'm back - 02/24/05 01:32 PM
hey chicca---how are you doing??? been a long time, huh?

can you keep a secret???>>>>>>>>>hubby is finally doing it!!!!
Posted By: grapegirl Re: Well I'm back - 02/24/05 02:05 PM
My WH was a closet caller. Does your sister notice that she just can't do anything right for him? Acting strange, kissing strange, money and hours missing. I think there's also a list on the main MB site.
Posted By: way2 Re: Well I'm back - 02/24/05 07:01 PM
orchid -- lol ... believe it or not she actually got the OW to talk to her about the A and spill BEFORE the OW knew who she was. Took great fortitude for my sister not to go ballistic on her, but I think sis hadn't quite put 2 and 2 together that they were in an EA.

I actually had to say that to her several times .. that this WAS/IS an A .. and really from all that sis has told me I think it went to PA.

tummytuck - and also for finding out about one .. that's where sis would go when she's snag his phone to check the call logs (and where I went to when I'd pitch FWH cell too)

Nikko -
</font><blockquote><font size="1" face="Verdana, Arial">quote:</font><hr /><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial"> hey chicca---how are you doing??? been a long time, huh?

can you keep a secret???>>>>>>>>>hubby is finally doing it!!!!
</font><hr /></blockquote><font size="2" face="Verdana, Arial">Great! I'm so happy for you! <img border="0" title="" alt="[Smile]" src="images/icons/smile.gif" /> .. I've been thinking about hamburgers and glasses of water a lot lately.

Yes it's been a long time . . . I wish I could say everything with us in on track. It's not, and I'm not only thirsty but hungry as well .. FWH on the other hand pretty much has glasses of water and everything but the lettuce, tomatoes and pickle for his hamburger (IMHO)

Sis' sitch has really brought things "home."

grapegirl -- I'm not sure about all that .. we live 2,000 miles away from each other and I haven't been able to talk to her for very long this week.

Though the not do anything right is my FWH bit during the A <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />


way2

<small>[ February 24, 2005, 02:54 PM: Message edited by: way2 ]</small>
Posted By: nikko Re: Well I'm back - 02/25/05 12:25 AM
im sorry way---i know for me it took over three years of living in limboland, killing elephants left and right and screaming about hamburgers!!!(now all the newbies think im nuts...lol) i wish i had some words of wisdom but he finally started, and he is still in the infancy of starting <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" /> when i finally said---im done...and he felt it and smelled it and knew it was true.
Posted By: way2 Re: Well I'm back - 02/25/05 12:31 AM
Nikko - are you atill on? Go check your email

yeah the newbies have no idea about hamburgers <img border="0" title="" alt="[Wink]" src="images/icons/wink.gif" />

but if they want to know all they need to do is check my website .. the story and all is there <img border="0" title="" alt="[Big Grin]" src="images/icons/grin.gif" />
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