Is there hope.... - 06/26/05 01:41 PM
Hi I was wondering from people going through this is there hope of reversing the effects of wanting the big D, H has moved out, it's been a week, this has happened before (5) we alway say we want to work things and it goes good for about 6 months then puff! He wants out again! He tells me he loves me, but not in the loving and caring way a H should love a W. Should I just let go? He has always wanted to move away from my parents, we live next door, but I alway chicken out. He said we are to different, I love outdoors, he does not, he likes to watch movies all the time and I like to watch alittle, I've gotten use to doing and going places on my own over the course of 12 yrs. He tells me to find someone out there that shares the same interest. Is this for the best, any body have this kind of marriage and made it work? Just I just throw up my arms and call it quits? or course I don't have a choice as H wants the D.Should I just give him space and what happens will happen? Look at it as his loss? The house is up for sale as I can't afford it on my own, to tell the turth I'm happy about, I've always wanted to move but was afraid of upsetting my parents, so prefect chance. I just miss my H soooo MUCH!!! He was my life!!I really messed things up, why can't I make him happy?