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Hi there,

We moved all our crap back last week. 1108 miles from Ft Collins to San Diego.

Nate is now walking with a cane, his short term memory is back, and the Docs say his progress is better than they thought. He will probably still need supervision for another year and a half, but the prognosis is very good that he may be able to be a productive member of society..whatever that means.

We are very glad we were able to be there for Nate and I think it really helped in his recovery. Sad to leave but glad to be back.

Geeze has gone to Kentucky with her dad and brother for a family reunion, and will be gone a week, so I will be haunting the halls of MB much more than usual.

Unfortunately I spend waaayyy too much time at MB when at work. Is this an addiction? I must discipline myself.

Geeze and I are actually in a very good place. Everything but SF. I am thinking that I think about my utensil waayy too much! What am highschool?? <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Thanks for listening,

Welcome back.
STILL no SF ????????????????

* gulp *

Great updat on your DS. Man, I thought he was a gonner when you first reported his accident....

People's strength astounds me sometimes. Your boy got it from you it seems ....
Thanks bOb, I appreciate the reply.

STILL no SF ????????????????

* gulp *

Yeah, but just you wait!! When it occurs, you'll feel your little island shaking with the intensity!! <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" /> <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/cool.gif" alt="" />

Good to see you back, and GREAT to hear that your son is making so much progress. I have two friends that had severe head injuries, and both are doing well now. One had to retire early - she still has trouble with math. The other one is working, and is just the same as before, but with a little personality change. His emotions are closer to the surface now. I will pray for good things for your son.

As far as the SF, with all the stuff you and your wife have gone through, I'm not surprised. Have you talked to her about it?
Welcome home, Krusht. Glad your son is doing better.
Posted By: turp really confused and hurt - 07/15/05 01:59 PM
my wife and I have been married for 7 yrs have to kids d-9 & s-3 we have been together for 8 years. I adoptied my daughter on on our anniverasry 2 years ago. Up to that point we had had a good marriage. shortly after the adoption my wife and I began to grow apart, although I did not realize it untill now.

on 5/24/05 my world came crashing down on me, when my wife left me and our kids. She gave the usual excuse that she "loved me but was not in love w/ me" She swore that there was no one else, and that she just need time to work on herself. So she moved 30 miles away into a very questionable house and neighborhood.

I began working on my self by seeing a counselor and by reading everything I could find about marital problems. My best friend told me about MB and I started reading everthing I could find on this web site.

On 6/17/2005 I found a number on my wife cell bill that she was calling at all times of the day and night for long periods of time usually 30 to 40 minutes each and many times per day. I called the number and a man answered, when I told him who I was and asked why he was calling my mife so often he cursed and hung up. When I confronted my wife about the calls she got very angry and told me that it was none of my business who she talked to becasue we did not live together any more. She swore that the pereson was just a friend and that she had met him while taking care of his dad at a nursing home she works at. The next day the om calls me and tries to cover his but becasue I know him and he is married and twice my wife's age. I caught him in several lies during our conversation, of course he said that he was only trying to help me and my wife get back together. I told him if he was really interested in that that he would not take my wifes calls and would end all contact with my wife. K-( my wife ) says she has brokien off all contact w/ the om. I really dont believe her because she is still was to secretive and has removed her cell from my bill to prevent me from checking it agian.

we have had very little contact except when we are meeting to excahnge the kids for vistis with their mom. But yesterday she was fired from her job for failure to show up and a poor attitude. I am afraid she will want to move home now becasue she cannot afford to be on her own. I still love my wife and do want her back, but I want her back becasue she wants to be with me not becasue she cannot make it on her own. I really don't feel like she has made any effort to work on herself and that I am beter off without her right now. Any advice for you folks that have been through this sort of thing would help. I have tried negotiating w/ her but she will not talk unless it has to do with our kids. not sure where to go. thanks for taking the time to read this and respond if you have advise.
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