What is best for the CHILDREN??? - 10/07/05 12:42 PM
My WW and have been seperated for about 4 months. During this time we have been sharing our 2 DD. My WW has them much more than I do.
Everytime I mention I would like them more WW gets mad and says she is just doing what is best for them.
Today was one of those times. WW just gave me a new "visitation schedule" she had made. I have had them since Tue. and WW would take them on Sun. and have them for 2 weeks. Basically I have them 9 nights and WW has them about 21 nights.
I said to WW I would really like to have them through Tue. since I am off work. WW said she is trying to make this best for 2 DD. WW said DD get very mad a day or so I am to have them and again for day or so when WW gets them back.
WW said DDs need to be with her that WW is just trying to do what is best for DDs and I am just being selfish.
WW was at work(we had conversation on phone) and said she couldn't talk. WW said she will call later to discuss.
I need some advice on how to handle this conversation. I want to do what is best for DD and if this means letting them be with WW more I will let thim.
If anyone has some advice on how they handled visitation and how it seemed to work for their kids I would appreciate it.
CR
Everytime I mention I would like them more WW gets mad and says she is just doing what is best for them.
Today was one of those times. WW just gave me a new "visitation schedule" she had made. I have had them since Tue. and WW would take them on Sun. and have them for 2 weeks. Basically I have them 9 nights and WW has them about 21 nights.
I said to WW I would really like to have them through Tue. since I am off work. WW said she is trying to make this best for 2 DD. WW said DD get very mad a day or so I am to have them and again for day or so when WW gets them back.
WW said DDs need to be with her that WW is just trying to do what is best for DDs and I am just being selfish.
WW was at work(we had conversation on phone) and said she couldn't talk. WW said she will call later to discuss.
I need some advice on how to handle this conversation. I want to do what is best for DD and if this means letting them be with WW more I will let thim.
If anyone has some advice on how they handled visitation and how it seemed to work for their kids I would appreciate it.
CR