Complicated Plan B questions........... - 10/23/05 10:23 PM
Mortarman - Hi!
I have been laying low lately. I can not detect any comm ww has with anybody - and I am not interested in doing any intel. I really think she is not involved with anyone at the moment. But I know it will come.
I was served Sept. 28, and have yet to find an attorney that I think will work for me the way I need.
My issue is that we are in a lease that goes until February. We need to stay in the house for another 4 months. I do not think WW will move out - I am not going anywhere.
You mentioned a modified "same house" plan B. Wife has been chilly and does not like or trust me any more, and I do not like her much, either. I fight now for the sake of the kids. And my promise.
Do you think I should try the modified plan B?
Our spiritual views have diverged. I have remained true to Christianity (with serious questions about things) but she has gone head first into new-age and entitlement stuff. She had at one time been very involved in our main-stream denominational church - but she has moved far from basic Christian theology. I am not sure I have the energy to deal with it.
She has a fantasy of living divorced in the same house. (we discussed it a LONG time ago) but I can not do that. I still feel pain when she has an affair. (oddly - I am not bleeding as I write this - i have grown quite indifferent)
Sorry to set a bad example for so many. I had a much higher chance of success if I was in plan B a year ago with the first A.
I am just floating through this at this point.
But I am excited about life! I am still (slowly) working on a plan to get out of debt and become financially stable. Gotta start thinking about college bills in 7 years or so....
Thanks to everyone who has invested in me. I am a different man than the one who logged on a year and a half ago....
edited title - how many posts start: "Mortarman..."????
I have been laying low lately. I can not detect any comm ww has with anybody - and I am not interested in doing any intel. I really think she is not involved with anyone at the moment. But I know it will come.
I was served Sept. 28, and have yet to find an attorney that I think will work for me the way I need.
My issue is that we are in a lease that goes until February. We need to stay in the house for another 4 months. I do not think WW will move out - I am not going anywhere.
You mentioned a modified "same house" plan B. Wife has been chilly and does not like or trust me any more, and I do not like her much, either. I fight now for the sake of the kids. And my promise.
Do you think I should try the modified plan B?
Our spiritual views have diverged. I have remained true to Christianity (with serious questions about things) but she has gone head first into new-age and entitlement stuff. She had at one time been very involved in our main-stream denominational church - but she has moved far from basic Christian theology. I am not sure I have the energy to deal with it.
She has a fantasy of living divorced in the same house. (we discussed it a LONG time ago) but I can not do that. I still feel pain when she has an affair. (oddly - I am not bleeding as I write this - i have grown quite indifferent)
Sorry to set a bad example for so many. I had a much higher chance of success if I was in plan B a year ago with the first A.
I am just floating through this at this point.
But I am excited about life! I am still (slowly) working on a plan to get out of debt and become financially stable. Gotta start thinking about college bills in 7 years or so....
Thanks to everyone who has invested in me. I am a different man than the one who logged on a year and a half ago....
edited title - how many posts start: "Mortarman..."????