Nothing left to do but hope for a miracle - 09/17/06 02:33 AM
In the past two weeks since I've had surgery, my WH has called twice. Once was in response to a text message question I sent him, and once to tell me he was taking DS 14 out for dinner since he was working close.
He only came to the hospital the day after my surgery because DD 20 begged him to. She told me that today.
He has shut her out almost completely-few messages, no calls. He stopped calling DD 24 after I got home from the hospital. He does talk with or text the boys a couple of times a week. Mostly about school.
He rarely calls me to check on my progress. He doesn't have any explanation for why he wants out of our M. He just wants me to file the separation papers.
I plan to do that soon as I have more energy- to protect us from his choices because he is truly a stranger to all of us right now.
He isn't doing anything but working as far as I know. NO other OW's-no old friends (he's cut off contact from just about everyone) and he has had no contact with the attempted EA OW since she turned him in to his boss (the head pastor). He's just shut down.
DS 18 was home this week-end from college and WH and he met for breakfast before they moved some furniture I agreed that WH could take to the house he's renting. WHen I asked my oldest son how it went he said "well, he doesn't look me in the eye anymore." WOW!
I have joined a separation/divorce group at a local church, and am obeying my surgeon's orders so I recover as fast as I can.
At this point, I truly believe that it will take a miracle for my M to recover.
I also know that it's God who works miracles-not me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />
He only came to the hospital the day after my surgery because DD 20 begged him to. She told me that today.
He has shut her out almost completely-few messages, no calls. He stopped calling DD 24 after I got home from the hospital. He does talk with or text the boys a couple of times a week. Mostly about school.
He rarely calls me to check on my progress. He doesn't have any explanation for why he wants out of our M. He just wants me to file the separation papers.
I plan to do that soon as I have more energy- to protect us from his choices because he is truly a stranger to all of us right now.
He isn't doing anything but working as far as I know. NO other OW's-no old friends (he's cut off contact from just about everyone) and he has had no contact with the attempted EA OW since she turned him in to his boss (the head pastor). He's just shut down.
DS 18 was home this week-end from college and WH and he met for breakfast before they moved some furniture I agreed that WH could take to the house he's renting. WHen I asked my oldest son how it went he said "well, he doesn't look me in the eye anymore." WOW!
I have joined a separation/divorce group at a local church, and am obeying my surgeon's orders so I recover as fast as I can.
At this point, I truly believe that it will take a miracle for my M to recover.
I also know that it's God who works miracles-not me. <img src="/ubbt/images/graemlins/pfft.gif" alt="" />