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I caught the little woman in an affair. I came here & got A LOT of help from the site AND the members. - SO I changed .and She said that she was going to, but that she was not the real blame. all the classic symtoms. staying gone , new friends, weight loss,Just like I was reading the Dr's list about her!
I discovered a list of letters that was saved on a disk for 5 years.the man was a child that she had sex with him he was 13 she 18 maybe 19!!! (sounds illeagle)
I had been injured & was flat on my back for over 2 months.
so she just took up with him again(dirty trick?)
she was verry careful to put things in the letters(on the disk) that if found could be mistaken as just a letter not sent, or adding letters every so often that would make it seem that the affair was only one sided!Really sneaky but she admitted to it!
So I really tried HARD all summer to mend things.LOOKED GOOD TOO.
well, I hurt my rotater cuffs & was realy in pain for 6 weeks , not laid up but in pain.I must admit that she was not #1 on my mind for a few weeks. I noticed that she was going back to the old routine, going to see her mother a lot, cousins, buisness trips, movies with a friend.I asked her what was up. She said to me--- Just like before you are not giving me every thing I want or need .
I FEEL REALLY BAD ABOUT THIS!YES the BAAAaaaad feeling again.
I can't catch her on the internet any more = wise to spy ware , wise to disks.
what should I do to corner her this time? I would just QUIT but 30 years is a lot of time to loose & how could I start over... NO with y'alls help I will straighten her out
Thank you
0403

Click on this link------> SPYING 101

~ Marsh

Thanks marsh.
I used key logger , that got me going
Then I bought personal inspector That is a VERY good program!
BUT I think the puter.& phone . is out, looks to me as though she has evolved! I was wondering just how she is doing it?
maybe she is more sneaky than all us, but I think not!! hope not!
thanks
0403

Buy a GPS & stick it under her car

GPS INFO HERE <~~~ click

GPS- might be a great tool . I have looked on these sites you left the links to & on EBAY. Ya know the mileage very seldome changes. I check the gas mileage just to see what gas mileage we get . might be they meet some where?
or ? just don't know. should be an answer on how to trip her up, she is sly!!
0403

when my H was in his A, they'd meet at the airport and then drive away in a rental car !!!

now THAT is sly

Yes it is . wonder if they thought it up on there own or read about it somewhere?
I think my wife is up to something that is just as sneaky. To hire a private eye has came to mind. but I just don't know if these guys are reliable . I have wached this DOG guy on tv. looks expensive & might be a rough bunch of people to deal with
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my husband told me that when he drove to meet OW for their first motel weekend together, she said to meet him at the airport

they met
she had rented a car so they would not be recognized
they left their cars at the airport

she was very experienced
9th affair (at least that's what she told my H at the end)

"DOG" is a celebrity PI
call someone local
I suggest you hire a female if possible
somone who looks like a granny

Pep

PS

they only used the rental car the first time

after that, they did not because it became too expensive

*gag*

Pep

his car ? (much adultery is fornicating in a car !!! You'd be surprised)
public transportation ?
somewhere local ?

I'd seriously consider putting a GPS on her car anyway
at least you would know if she is habitually driving to somewhere she does NOT tell you about

and if she is
you could get a buddy to tail her her & to watch what happends

Pep

thanks, I think I am just going to have it out & get it over with.
any body want a used wife?
looks good but seems to have HIGH mileage!!