In the ongoing string of “What-Ifs” that run through my mind, I can’t let go of “What if I had woken up to what was right in front of me and found this place just 2-months earlier?” Even one month earlier could have been all the difference. Maybe with the help of the great people here, the EA would never have become a PA. I would have had time to really put together a strong and thoughtful Plan A. I could have saved my marriage. I would be working together with my W (she was a wonderful person) making a better marriage and not counting the days to be severed from WW (she is an entitled, selfish, mean creature I do not recognize) forever.
chrisner,
I am going to steal this quote from you (with your permission of course)
Brought a tear to my eye. MY exact sentiments. I occasionally copy a few quotes that I come across into a file of my own. I have made two sections -
One section that I read over and over again now to help keep me on track and another section that I believe will be helpfull in later relationships. This kind of "what if" thinking does't do any good right now, but If I can remember all this wisdom for the next one I won't need to ask "what if", I'll die happy!!