Just recently, I read a thread that listed 13 or so steps to a physical affair. They were the usual things like setting up private meetings, sharing with the OP more things than with your spouse, looking forward to spending time with OP, teasing, etc. Now I can't find the thread. Can someone point me to it? My FWH and I are finally making some progress in his acknowledgement of what he did in his EA--He has actually used his own words to describe what he feels he was doing. I have found it very helpful and just wanted to share that post with him. I think it was one he read early on after discovery, but it seems useful to me now. I may be heading into that spot where I can finally put this EA to bed. Pardon the pun.
Lake

You can find it copied and pasted into the "For Newly Betrayed Spouses" Thread started by Longhorn and pinned to the top of the Just Found Out board.

Mr. W

Thanks.
Lake

15 Steps Of Unfaithfulness