Another question - 08/06/08 08:10 PM
I'm full of 'em today, aren't I??
This may have a PAINFULLY obvious answer to the rest of you, so forgive my stupidity if that's the case. I guess the gears haven't fully engaged yet from the shock of it all.
Among everything else - having full access to all accounts, all passwords, both of us being 100% transparent, POJA, etc. I also installed keylogging software - he doesn't know this. I haven't given him access to my individual savings account, because that's how I bought the software - and it shows a PayPal purchase. I'm also feeling a little conflicted about having the keylogging software without him knowing - but it's really helped me keep an eye on him and even see him coming here to MB without any prodding from me, to read up on "How To Meet Emotional Needs."
So if I give him access to my savings, he'll see the Paypal purchase and ask me about it. But by not giving him access (he hasn't even asked for it), I kind of feel like I'm not adhering to the POJA. What's the right answer to this?
This may have a PAINFULLY obvious answer to the rest of you, so forgive my stupidity if that's the case. I guess the gears haven't fully engaged yet from the shock of it all.
Among everything else - having full access to all accounts, all passwords, both of us being 100% transparent, POJA, etc. I also installed keylogging software - he doesn't know this. I haven't given him access to my individual savings account, because that's how I bought the software - and it shows a PayPal purchase. I'm also feeling a little conflicted about having the keylogging software without him knowing - but it's really helped me keep an eye on him and even see him coming here to MB without any prodding from me, to read up on "How To Meet Emotional Needs."
So if I give him access to my savings, he'll see the Paypal purchase and ask me about it. But by not giving him access (he hasn't even asked for it), I kind of feel like I'm not adhering to the POJA. What's the right answer to this?