Just so you know

I find it insulting for you to imply that in any post I have ever ever ever advocated staying in an abusive relationship...

it's almost laughable if it wasn't such an abhorrent thought....


it's also a shame for such a thing to be expressed on peppers post....
which can and does help so many

if you have a problem with my post...surely out of the five thousand...I must offer stay and get abused advice often...

I would sincerely request that you
just call me out
or report it to the mods and get it removed.....

respectfully

ARK^^

ARK, NO WAY do I have a problem with that beautiful post of yours! I am sorry you misunderstood my intent!

I have a HUGE problem with CHERISHED who uses YOUR post as a reason to stick with her monster abuser husband and keep getting verbally and physcially beaten up in front of her kids. Again and again. As she sits there and takes it.

I KNOW that YOU did not mean to STAY AND TAKE ABUSE. But she takes it to mean that.

(Truly I did not notice who wrote the post, I see now it was you I have nothing against you nor your post)

This Cherished has ruined her whole life staying with a monster of a husband. Her children are also ruined. I am sorry. I know the intent of your post is good. SHE twisted your post to mean that SHE is to STAY with her abuser.

It is not YOUR fault, nor is it MY fault that Cherished is too weak to report her husband to the police for beating on her and to continue to stay with him. Your post did not advise anything like that.

I always liked what I read of all your posts thru the years. You have a rare and true wisdom. There is no way I disagree with the posts themselves, just how some people seem to misinterpret them.

Ark, thanks for pointing this out. Explaining myself is not enough, i wiped out my posts on Peppers thread so they would not offend anyone else. Sorry!