In Plan B, I hear things that are upsetting anyway - 12/15/09 07:24 AM
WH's oldest, best pal is now friends with the OW and trying to make sure WH will dump me and be her man. After all....I am the 'ball and chain', the dead relationship that sucks his life force from him to keep him from truly living (lol) and she is the 'passionate love' (my statement on this.....bull, friend is clueless about love and commitment and happiness from working through issues... lol)
I hear this from a reliable source though I know I should not be hearing this drama stuff.
1. I never liked best friend but was civil to him for 25 years
2. I know he is whacko
3. I hear it and think that I don't want friend ever in my life again even if there is a rebuild marriage (he could be a source to contact OW in the future now that they are phone pals)
4. My kids are exposed to friend when they visit WH
How do I keep cool and not get sucked into this drama and be true to plan B?
I hear this from a reliable source though I know I should not be hearing this drama stuff.
1. I never liked best friend but was civil to him for 25 years
2. I know he is whacko
3. I hear it and think that I don't want friend ever in my life again even if there is a rebuild marriage (he could be a source to contact OW in the future now that they are phone pals)
4. My kids are exposed to friend when they visit WH
How do I keep cool and not get sucked into this drama and be true to plan B?