Cautiously Optimistic - Confronted WS last night! - 06/15/01 03:54 PM
Hey people,<P>The saga continues. My wife invited a girl friend over last night to go for a walk. At that point I went on our computer to check the days activities. I have rigged the computer pretty good to let me know exactly what people did on the machine during the day.<P>I went through the chat transcripts my wife wrote with the OM and finally confronted her with them. I told her that I had been monitoring her every move on the machine for a few weeks now because I don't like her having contact with the OM. Surprizingly, she didn't care and told me that things between her and OM could be off. She now know that I am monitoring everything electronic that she does.<P>I told her she had to break things off with the OM and I think I may be getting through to her. She told me she needs councelling and is going to call the councellor for an appointment today. She requested that I sit in on her first session. That surprized me as well, because I was worried she was going to distort the story to benefit her.<P>I want to be prepared for that meeting. I want to pose a number of questions that I would like answers to over time. Some of them obviously can't be answered immediately.<P>She mentioned something about getting advise from the councellor on having OM as a friend. I certainly will raise my concerns and hope the councellor is on my side and can stress the valid points why she should not maintain contact, not only for herself, but for me the BS.<P>However, my wife seems to be procrastinating, she has yet to call for an appointment. <P>That is why I take all these events with cautious optimizm.<P>------------------<BR>Blue Rodeo Boy<BR><-- Trust Yourself, and don't believe in any more lies. -->