I know better - 12/07/01 03:17 AM
Ok - I'm in recovery month #4 with my WH, things seem to be getting better, but we seem to be hitting a little lull. Went to counseling with him Tues., decided with therapist to wait 6 weeks because we are not going anywhere. Basically, WH enjoys being very angry with OW, wanting revenge, and letting these feeling take over and affect himself, me and our relationship. These feelings come and go . . . he's pretty much admitted that he's not willing to let them go. He's also not willing to start addressing his sex addiction and fantasy sex life, which really interferes with our relationship as well.<p>Which leads me to the "I know better" part. I feel so frustrated by the recent lack of progress that I am sabotaging. I think about divorce, going out and flirting with any cute guy I can get my hands on, and I am not meeting WH's EN's - I'm LBing with sarcasm, cold sholder etc. How do I get myself back out of this rut???!!!!!!!!!! [img]images/icons/confused.gif" border="0[/img] <p>WLE