hope4future, lifeismessy, any other old timers... - 11/24/03 03:43 PM
Hi,
How's it going? I haven't been here in months, but I thought I'd check in for any of those old timers still lurking around.
Well, my situation has not changed one bit. Absolutely no progress on the D in a long time, probably 6 months. As you may recall, back in June I suggested to my stbx that we try to settle this. We both talked to our lawyers, yet nothing is happening. My lawyer has made repeated attempts to schedule a settlement conference, to no avail. I have still not received all the financial doc's from my W and/or her lawyer. I've provided then with everything they asked for. They made a ridiculous "counter offer" a 2 months ago they day before we were supposed to go to court. I rejected it and they asked for a continuance.
My lawyer is frustrated. I'm frustrated too, but I've decided not to have my lawyer press the issue anymore. Every fax, every phone call just costs me money. The balls in their court and they can make the next move. We have a court date scheduled for mid January and if nothing happens by then, it's "see you in court".
I want this over, but I'm done wasting money. This whole situation is ridiculous. Custody was settled a year ago, the house was sold 10 months ago. The remaining issues are retirement assets and CS. The retirement assets should be simple, add up what we have and split it in half. My W wants to keep what she has and I keep what I have. Hers is much more, but I'm sure you could have guessed that. CS we don't agree on, but we can't even all get together to try to negotiate.
Other than that, all is well. I'm looking forward to the holidays. Have a great turkey day!!!!
sad dad
How's it going? I haven't been here in months, but I thought I'd check in for any of those old timers still lurking around.
Well, my situation has not changed one bit. Absolutely no progress on the D in a long time, probably 6 months. As you may recall, back in June I suggested to my stbx that we try to settle this. We both talked to our lawyers, yet nothing is happening. My lawyer has made repeated attempts to schedule a settlement conference, to no avail. I have still not received all the financial doc's from my W and/or her lawyer. I've provided then with everything they asked for. They made a ridiculous "counter offer" a 2 months ago they day before we were supposed to go to court. I rejected it and they asked for a continuance.
My lawyer is frustrated. I'm frustrated too, but I've decided not to have my lawyer press the issue anymore. Every fax, every phone call just costs me money. The balls in their court and they can make the next move. We have a court date scheduled for mid January and if nothing happens by then, it's "see you in court".
I want this over, but I'm done wasting money. This whole situation is ridiculous. Custody was settled a year ago, the house was sold 10 months ago. The remaining issues are retirement assets and CS. The retirement assets should be simple, add up what we have and split it in half. My W wants to keep what she has and I keep what I have. Hers is much more, but I'm sure you could have guessed that. CS we don't agree on, but we can't even all get together to try to negotiate.
Other than that, all is well. I'm looking forward to the holidays. Have a great turkey day!!!!
sad dad