Tempted by Fantasies - 03/10/00 01:11 AM
I would like to start off by quoting Jersey Joe.<P>"We have all met people we fould attractive and felt very compatable with that we could have affairs with.<P>Everybody! I bet it happens 2-3 times a year to most people. But we don't act on it. The reason we don't act on it is because we know it is wrong. It takes an effort to develop a relationship with someone. If you know they are married, you have already weighted the options and know the consequences before you begin."<P>What Jersey Joe is saying is so true. The problem I'm having is that I'm so tempted. How do I go about taming those fantasies that spread like wildfire through my head?<P>My husband travels frequently on extended trips that sometimes lasts for several months. We love each other very much and we talk on the phone every day. Yet, that temptation of the tangible can be very difficult to overcome - for both of us.<P>My number one need is to please my man. I thouroughly enjoy the day in day out ways that I can make him feel like the king of our household. When he is not around I get very confused because I need him so much. <P>It is also very tempting for him as well. I know he is going through a difficult time right now. He is currently in a training situation where his partner is a single woman. His success in the program is determined by how well they work together as a team. They share many late evenings in his hotel room studying and after class it is convenient for them to have lunch.<P>I trust him. Yet, he is traveling down that road to an affair. I'm hoping he's strong enough to resist the temptation if a moment arises between them. <P>