Don't be one on February 14 if you are being mistreated. Get with a best friend or family member and pamper yourself. You deserve to have to fun and laugh for a change. So no pity parties on Monday.<P>

Cuckold, <P>By your name, I wonder if you read Private Lies?? <P>I have been dreading tomorrow with a passion. Going to try and get through it one hour at a time.

cuckold -- Long time no see. I hope you are doing well.<P>God Bless

Thanks Empty Shell, hope you have a good heart day today. Yes LonelyMom, and it's a great book, very insightful.

My husband and I are separated right now but are supposed to be working on our marriage... well, you know how that goes, I am working on the marriage. Anyway, I just saw him this weekend and when I got home, I had a nicey nice Valentine in my e-mail from him. Well, when I went to reply to send him one, guess what happened!!! It popped up his e-mail addresses to people he has sent cards to from that website. Well, guess what, the ow's e-mail address was there. Of course I am sick about it. I talked to him on Pow Wow and called him on it. What a jerk! Why do I keep hanging on? Because I am a fool who loves her husband and believes that marriage is forever! Anyway, he told me he sent her a card that says he is blue. Well, that sort of just sent me right over the edge! I unleashed! I know, I love busted all over the place! It just ticked me off! How dare he! OK, that was my Valentine's Day horror story! I just wish I could have seen the card she got! Hmmmm.... wonder how I could find that out! Oh well... it would just make me even more sick than I already am!<P>Woozy

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