Beerman2,<P>Well, lets review the bidding here. She wasn't going to be with you this weekend anyway right? You two are separated. She apparently isn't planning on coming back immediately, new 6 month lease. Isn't she pregnant as well? Cannot remember exactly.<P>Maybe just maybe there is some jealousy.
<BR>But realistically, I think you should in your best Plan A, tell her that you love her, that you want the marriage, you would love nothing better to be back together, BUT you aren't.<P>You need a vacation from everything and this offers a chance to be with people you like. You don't want to vacation alone, you spend enough time alone. <P>All of the rest of things you could say, like it wasn't my idea to separate, I didn't have an affair, and your not committed to me why should I listen to you, ... did I miss anything
, you should not say.<P>You know Beerman2 your marriage is only going to last as long as you decide to try. The day you decide "to heck with it", she is gone. I suspect she knows that her safety net may develop a hole if you meet someone else. So she is afraid. You don't have to tell her this she knows it.<P>So I recommend you tell something along the lines of the top paragraph and go enjoy yourself. You could use a little fun, right?<P>God Bless,<P>JL