Strange situation- looking for feedback - 11/26/00 10:17 PM
Hi all!<P>Hope you all had a nice holiday.<P>Things here are good. I am getting along fine as a nearly single woman- still not divorced and don't know when it will be final, but I am pretty much living like it's done. Not dating, but just not so bothered by the whole drama of the past year.<P>Anyway, here's the latest deal. The H is still trying to have sex with me. I told him if he didn't care about me, didn't want to take me out and be seen in public with me, and if I couldn't come to his house (that he shares with the OW), I didn't want him as a sex partner. Well, he said I was welcome to come to his house. Could I meet him over there right now?<P>Huh? Now, I expect that he thought I'd back down. I didn't answer. It's not that I want back into the mud again. It's more like I was shocked. Do you think he is serious? It sounds kind of sick, but I am rather intrigued by the thought of having sex with my husband while the OW is downstairs listening. A sick form of payback. Do I think this would ever really happen? No, I think he's bluffing, but what do you all make of that?