To Almost Happy - 01/28/01 09:11 AM
Hi,<BR>I see from your profile that you started coming to marriage builders around the same time in 1999 as I did. I hav'nt been here for some time as I found it too depressing. I promised myself that I would come back and post again if my husband and I ever got back together. My husband of 16 years is moving back in this week after being with ow for two years. I read a post that you made in response to Sad Heart and it really struck a cord with me....."It is harder for US to get over the OW then it is for them to. They can put it behind them, make it go away, it is up to YOU, when YOU are ready, to not keep making him remember, by YOU bringing it up. That takes time...alot of time."<BR>You are absolutly right about this one! I am struggling with it right now...but I know that for my marriage to work...I have to leave the ow in the past. I guess I just wanted to say thank you. Its so nice to see<BR>some positive posts here.<BR>lonesome<BR>