How often does this happen - 04/22/01 11:25 PM
I was the betrayer in my marriage. About three years ago, while my husband and I were separated, I had a one night stand with a guy from work. We ended up having sex in the stairwell at work. I know, not the best place but when you're in a fantasy world anything can happen.<P>I ended up catching gential herpes from this man and he denied all the way that he has them or even gave them to me. He told me he wasn't seeing anyone else but rumors flying around work says otherwise. I'm sure he either got if from the other woman he was sleeping with or he gave it to her as well. I had one outbreak in April 98. <P>What I'm wondering is this. I haven't had any other outbreaks since then. I'm not complaining or anything but I'm wondering if that is something that usually happens. Do someone ususally go more than three years without an outbreak? It just doesn't seem that it would work so well for me like that. The sores hurt like crap and I really don't want to infect my husband. He's been so wonderful to me and has put up with my PA and many EAs. I couldn't ask for a more wonderful man in the world.<P>I'm just wondering if having more than a three year strecth and counting between outbreaks for herpes a common thing or not?