Update on Weekend BBQ=Resentment - 05/22/01 08:39 PM
Hi All,<P>I'm posting an update on what occurred over the weekend. If you read my post from last Friday, I wrote that my H was contemplating attending a BBQ that his alcoholic single friends were giving (no spouses invited).<P>My H knows how I feel about these so-called "party" friends of his...these friends are nothing but trouble...yet he refuses to see that.<P>For days, I was so upset about this but when it came to the day, he didn't go. We did go out as a family, though. However, he acted resentful because of not attending this BBQ. The weekend was somewhat tense. We gave our opinions of the situation and we ended up arguing.<BR> <BR>After a 1-day cooling off period, things around here eased up. This morning, he brought me a special treat from the local gourmet bakery. Sometimes when he does that, it is like a "peace offering."<P>Looks like we'll have to work on our POJA and our Plan A.