D Papers came on Friday. - 07/29/01 03:45 AM
Well the D papers came on Friday morning while she was making herself look good for the gym and I was having breakfast with our children. Serving me in front of the kids, took a lot of class, what else is new. My kids were in a state of shock and very depressed. Another exampled of the fog and good judgment. The day before she asked for his love letters, I said no way she proceeded to hit me. So much for plan A. She is gone the whole day and puts a lot of miles on the car, visiting OM. Time for a strong plan B ?.<BR>I want you to know that I tried to reach her and did at times, but the OM and her low self-esteem makes plan A imposable. I’m really OK about this. At this point I could never see her with me as my wife. The woman I married 15 years ago is gone or buried so deep in her that it will take a major fall to bring her back. But it will never be the same. "You don’t lose love then have an affair; you have affairs and lose love". I’m heartbroken that she took the wrong road and once again fell for the first guy that told her what she wanted to hear. In any event she is near 40 and going through her mid life crisis and just wants to be 20 again. She goes out every night till 1 am or later. Its having an effect on the our family. She will be losing her children, her home and her life for this OM, who by the way is separated and going through his divorce, funny misery loves company. They deserve each other. I think she is setting herself up for a fall. I told her that each time she looks at this idiot she would be looking at the man that helped destroy her family. I hope that made a point. Please don’t misunderstand I wanted this to work, so did the children. Any Advise ?.<BR>