Spouse working with OW - 01/12/02 03:26 PM
I know there are some of you out there who have a WS working with OW???<p>My H had a brief PA with a coworker. He said he would quit, but right now I am not working (will be in a few weeks I HOPE once my position goes through though). We need the income and the insurance for our special needs S. H is also very good at his job and I know it means so much to him (though he is willing to give it up)...I am the one hedging on him leaving it, but at the same time I can't stand that he sees her and has to interact with her everyday. He says it is strictly business, not even friendly chit chat, and when she joins a group of people talking about stuff, then he excuses himself and walks away. He said there was never any emotional connection (I know there had to be some because he talked to her on the phone occasional before and after work), all they ever talked about was work and sports. Said he was so messed up in the head and he doesn't know what he was thinking. They had sex 3 times and apparently it was WHAM BAM THANK YOU MAM on both of their parts. Anyhow, it still makes me uncomfortable that they see eachother everyday. I can monitor his cell phone ussage and bills, so I know if there is anything before or after work and there is someone there to keep a check on him (with his 'permission')...but geez.<p>Anyone else in this situation? How do you do it? I do pretty well, because H is totally with me when he gets home, sounds so relieved and excited when we talk as he drives home, he calls once or twice throughout the day, and we text msg back and forth too. Once I start back to work, if we decide that he should stay, I will be allowed to visit him at work whenever I want (he says that NOW [img]images/icons/rolleyes.gif" border="0[/img] ) but this makes me nervous because I have never seen OW (though apparently she is not "all that."<p>anyone?