WHY CAN`T HE ADMIT IT - 02/16/06 02:40 PM
Knew he was seeing an old friend he had a crush on since he was a child. but couldnt prove it. Was going on for 10 years. He denied it, only said he went there 1 time to see her with his sister. I knew better.He started drinking more, hitting on me had to go to domestic violence classes. We had spilt up and went back together again. Still denieing he was over there more than once. 2 years passed dug more he had been going over there when I was at work. Times he said he slept in his truck cause he was drunk. Found out he slept in her house.Found out he worked on her house (she is divorced). Went to talk to her she knew he cared for her says she told him it was only infacuation he told her there could be more. She says they never had sex.I dont believe this. Confronted hubby on all this, he still says nothing happened,that he was only over there now 6 times, that he worked on her house cause he felt sorry for her and he was there to talk to her about our marriage. I had asked him why he doesn`t go over there anymore he stated.. because he felt she was using him for doing things around the house. She told me...She said to my hubby if you are gonna be like that dont come around anymore(meaning sexual things) I compare what they both say, some things dont match up. he just can`t be honest with me and get this out in the open so we can move on. This marriage has only been based on lies and cheating. But he still states he loves me and doesnt want us to divorce. There will never be trust. Last time I spoke to her she said,Nothing sexual went on and that her and him were friends and if he went to jail again she would bail him out again!!! And that I should let it go! And not divorce him! It`s a shame the more I talk to her the more I find out. I just wish he would be honest, what is he affraid of I have been with him for 30 years and have been through everything with him.